Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law:
If the reader is a mother-in-law, then this publication is devoted to you!!!
|Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law|
How to build a positive relationship with your daughter-in-law?
Do you feel that as a mother-in-law, you have more responsibilities? Not at all. I hope you are surprised by this.
WAYS TO LOVE AND BUILD A POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP
I'm suggesting that you no longer need to look after your daughter-in-law or son. Each mother-in-law in the world makes this mistake.
You can still care for them but not like before, if you liked them being children it felt burdensome. And so they cannot understand what you said with concern.
This quote may help you,
"THE RIGHT EXPERIENCE GIVES YOU SUCCESS
INFANT EXPERIENCE GIVES YOU LESSONS
DIFFICULT EXPERIENCE CHANGES YOU
IMPERFECTION GIVES PERFECT RESULTS"
Your concern is that they will be irresponsible, but, you should understand that, as they become adults they can earn, be responsible, and save money. All these things are also known to them, as you would expect. This is not at all a serious problem. Those born in the 90s and upcoming generations are increasingly aware of the world around them, not perfectly, but they know enough to survive.
After all, you need to understand what your daughter-in-law thinks. They will have more fear about marriage and its concepts. Somehow, as per Indian tradition, women have to stay at their husband's homes forever after marriage. This actually sounds wrong to them, though the ritual itself has a mistake in it.
Is your son allowed to stay at her house forever? Will you be able to handle it? As a parent, you expect them to treat your son with respect, so you won't allow it. The same respect is expected from your daughter-in-law's mother as well.
In the past few years, all daughters-in-law have raised this question. From this point forward, they decided to stay alone, so that their houses would be divided equally.
To be continued...
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